Candy, yes, it makes sense. People all have different things that work for them or don't, and that they can tolerate or not. Some people get unnecessary surguries as a SI method. Others need the control. My husband has offered to cut me. He thought that I could give him control of it and then I would be able to stop. But I didn't want him to cut me because I wanted to have the control over that. It all comes down to how you feel, I guess. What did T say?