I see this so much, and have many friends whose marriages are ending because they feel that they are no longer "soul mates." It is usually the women who are saying this. I agree with the poster who said that you are in a new stage of your marriage. I also dont know your age, perhaps you are having a midlife crisis?

The one thing I do know is that the language that men and women speak is so incredibly different. I wish that we were given a manual before marriage so that we could communicate more effectively. It all comes down to learning how to speak each others language. My T loves the book 'Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus' she just raves about it.

Have you honestly approached your husband in a non blaming way and said "I miss you?" or shared how you really feel? I would bet you he has no clue, I didnt. We men often go along, and have no idea our wife is about to walk out the door, and it isnt because we dont care, we just dont know.