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Nov 05, 2010, 08:25 AM
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Member Since: Jun 2007
Location: Chicago, Illinois
Posts: 5,518
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Hi Redbucket, and welcome to the forum. 
I agree with Vickie. It sounds more like a dislike of yourself than a dislike of others. It's hard to love others when you don't love yourself. It's hard to feel safe and secure around others when you don't feel safe and secure about yourself.
You are fine at work because you excel in business matters. As a human being, you see yourself as a failure.
Maybe you can work on accepting and appreciating your own faults and quirks. We all have them. Once you've mastered this, you can work on accepting and appreciating the faults and quirks of others. Life would be extremely boring if we were all exactly alike - learn to love the good, bad and ugly in both yourself and in others.
I wish you the best. 
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