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Originally Posted by Muser
I am hopeful I did not overstep or offend.
If your husband doesn't spend a lot of time with you I wonder if you are available to him?The best I can give my guy is to treat him like the dear friend he is....with kindness and respectful communication. The fact that we are partners doesn't mean he deserves any less.
I wish you the very best, truly.
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Thanks again Muser for sharing your experiences. Me being available to him can be part of it. I'm not always available. - ok most of the time. I do however treat him with respect/we respect each other. Say please and thank you etc... I've been also begging him to go to counseling for like two years and he refuses to pay someone to listen to him/us. I do however go to my own T and try to work on my end of things on an individual level and how I am in my relationships.
I am trying and I read the articles. I guess i"m growing up at age 38
perhaps? Thanks for listening.
