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Originally Posted by Deborah35
Sometimes what I think happens is people are too picky with the things they shouldn't be, (for example, looks, job, car), and not picky enough with the more important things( like how that person treats you, respects you, listens to you). The second set of things I have here are the things that matter most to me.
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That's so true....If somebody treats me poorly, I don't want to go out with him anymore....but at the same time, some compatibility is important to me....I don't want to be a provider for the guy....I want him to be smart and have a job or at least do something....not a lazy loser! and I got to have chemistry with the guy, so then the look is important....but the one that I say handsome may not look handsome for others....I know from past experiences....