I was married for 27 years divorced for 7 years. My kids keep me out of their lives. They are adults and have children. I have to call them all of the time. I am kept out of everything, I have even called my ex to ask her to ask them to call me. I think this is ridiculous. Should I tell my ex how much it hurts that I am kept out, or confront my kids. I really hate having to get my ex involved.