Hey naturefreak congrats on the new relationship - hope everything is brilliant.

I dated a guy for a while who was on anti-depressants, can't remember which, and he had the same issue. Could get an erection but by the time it came to the act it was gone and the other extreme was that it would last for a very very long time.

Same went for me in a way, I had about 3 good days a month when I was on the antidepressants where I was attracted sexually. It happens for the women as well as the men in a way.

I have no solution other than perhaps seeing if the doc could lower the dose? Or try a different med?