I don't know... my dad hasn't even talked to him yet.
It is all so over-whelming for them both (my bro and dad)...
my mom has been emailing back and forth with my sis-in-law...
my dad wants to ask if he can email my bro directly but he is super nervous.

My mom said I should write a letter to my bro, but I have no clue what to say...
and I'm super nervous too. I don't want to say anything that will make my bro
not want to meet me, ya know?