Thank you so much for your feedback. By the way we are therapists. I doubt (at least right)now) that he would agree to that. I know I can use that as an option later on. He really feels like whenever he asks things of me I am always resentful and I make a face. I know that at time I get irratated, but I also know that I am not angry and resentful every time. I feel so helpless.. Thank you so for your kind words. The support is nice.