The older I get, the more I find this. When I was a teenager I only dated guys my age. But at 23, my 27 year old boyfriend is still like a 14 year old sometimes. And I find myself more attracted to guys in their 30s because (for the most part) they're over the stupid mind games and tricks. Seems like when I tell a guy what I'm all about and put it out on the table it freaks them out. They SAY they don't want a complicated girl who plays games but when you don't they get freaked out. I feel like older guys appreciate a straightforward woman.