perhaps getting together would have been her opportunity to talk to you about how you are and how things went with your father. and yes she probably felt a little hurt that you didnt want to go. sounds as though that was her way of trying to help, perhaps going and watching a silly movie with a good friend would have helped. take your mind off of things and be able to talk to a good friend. she probably feels just as dissed. and for having a friend for 15 years isnt something i would give up too easily.