The kids are boy @ 15 and and a sweetgirl who's 9, I love my wife very much but i don't believe she thinks the same about me. We are currently going to Relate (UK) but on the first visit my wife painted a picture that i'm a bullying husband, I was accused of making her life and our marriage diffecult.
I told the consultant that the first step to saving the marriage is for me to admit to my problems and deal with them head-on, but what about my wife. She believes that she has done no wrong which is upsetting.
i don't no if i should make the first step and end it all, move away and get a rented house and see how things go. would it be better to cut things how before it get's messy.
i'm having work related issues, not sure if i will have a job in the next couple of months, on telling my wife that things are not good at work my wife told me that if i lose my job then its the end for us.
you said that its best for us to sit down and talk, should i hold back or tell her that her actions and mine are driving us apart???
thanks for the reply