Thanks for your thoughts.
I guess the concept of humanity is the one that hits home the most - A T that can be honest and empathetic, and can show caring under "understanding".
And I agree, I appreciate the time i can sit in silence with my T and feel safe, safe enough to share, and hopefully soon - to show emotions.
T helps me see things from a different perspective. But she can only do that if I am 100% honest and also put my thoughts and feelings on the table for her to analyse.