Hello Trishwa,
If your partner isn't in counslling now he really should be. He's sounding obsessive with compulsive tendencies and does need help. He must have had these thoughts floating around in his head for a fair while and his jealousy & insecurity about your previous partners bothers him a fair deal. I'm sorry you're having to go through this and I do really urge you and your partner to go into therapy.
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