I wish that I had an answer to help you with your pain. I do know that there is never a good time to desert your kids because they will always need you even when they are grown.

I know, because my kids are grown and they continue to "need me." They need me to help solve difficult problems, to listen to them, to hold and hug them. When I have similar feelings to yours, I wonder if I can find a lighted path to guide me out of my hard life. I try to go one more day...take one more chance to find my way. Life can be so sweet and then turn around and bite you.

Where can you find-right now, someone to help you solve difficult problems, to listen to and support your needs? Maybe you can tell us more about what you need to help you and the group can help get you started.

Alesis