I'm new here... haven't even introduced myself yet but what else is new. You mentioned a bf. I looked on your profile but couldn't find anything... Are you female? I am female and was not correctly diagnosed until I was 30 because women display autism differently. As an aspi who's obsession area for 6 years was psych evals and psychometrics it does not sound like the person you talked to knows how to do a propper eval. I spent over 8 hours working face to face with the person who diagnosed me and that did not include all the information and emails before our first meeting. I would try and find a diagnostitian who is familiar with autism/aspergers as well as how it presents in women.