i think my fear is that the only thing i know will change. i know change can be a good thing, but it's scary. i'm okay working on changing myself on the inside and learning to change my behaviors, but changing my environment absolutely terrifies me. if, in fact, i have emotionally replicated my childhood home, can i really pull out of that? i've kind of "trained" my husband to treat me in a certain way. can he really change? change makes him uneasy as well.