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Originally Posted by purple_fins
I was wondering....
Have you ever said to him that he should feel sorry for his dad?
I can see where it would be hard in this situation-- to feel close and comfortable with such a friend. I imagine he and you share many good times but yet this would be difficult, yes.
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No. I've never really told him to do anything or pushed what I thought was right upon him. I know he has his own problems, and I know there are things he has faced that I have not.. and I admire his ability to always be positive about things, but when it comes to me, my mother, or even my brother and how he stresses me out and pushes me deeper into depression, he'll tell me I should be happy and alll of that. He pushes his idea of a good life upon me.
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Originally Posted by Sannah
Wow, a friend who tells you what you should do, especially without even seeing the situation from your perspective. I'm sorry.............
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thanks, it is very frustrating, and i have no idea how to go about the situation without starting an argument or hurting his feelings.
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