Dove I'm sorry you're in this situation. It's really impossible to tell what your father is feeling. I still agree with some of the others if there's any way you can get some communication going between you and your father that would be good. Maybe you could pick a few important things to discuss first and leave other things for later. Also, I don't know your financial situation at all but would it be possible to heat the room for an hour or two a day just enough so you can live in it for just a bit and some "you time"?