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Old Nov 09, 2010, 01:34 AM
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Thank you so much, kind Crew. I feel welcomed, indeed.

I have a question about healing... it doesn't mean getting "past" one's alters, does it? Because I'm just now accepting my Many. We're just now learning to appreciate each other, after a long and painful struggle with separation. I do want healing... as long as that entails me, remaining my Whole self/selves. One of my alters had a particularly rough time of it, and I will not forsake her again - even though there is much pain to be faced through her.

Thank you, again... I am so glad to be somewhere I can talk about Us. While I am blessed with priceless friends who accept... I want some time with those who understand, as well.

Healing doesn't necessarily mean "getting past" your alters or I guess you could say 'integration'...