We care ((((((Pete))))) That's what this site is for so I'm really glad you're here I'm so sorry about the financial hardships you are facing right now, but happy to hear you have a good family. And I'm sure they can see that you're doing everything you can to provide for them. I do agree it's hurtful that they didn't express more enthusiasm about your upcoming gig though. Can you maybe just say honestly to your wife that you were a bit hurt by her lack of interest? The gig sounds really exciting and I hope it goes well!!!!