Hey widgets,

It's funny sometimes how we ruminate over relationships and how they will inevitably turn out some times from now. The truth is, we really DON'T know how they will turn out at this very moment.

I wonder if it might help you to consider what you can do for yourself should these situations come about? What can you do to prepare yourself so that you are not totally thrown off kilter and end up having a meltdown? What can you do to work on your independence now and in the future so that you don't feel you need someone so much? What can you do to learn to depend on yourself and not let yourself down?

You can always give yourselves time to cool down from the disagreement. You can take the high road and offer your hand of friendship once again. It doesn't mean you have to apologize for anything if you don't believe you were wrong. What you can say is that you don't think you were wrong but that you can agree to disagree and that you want to keep your friendship intact. We don't always see eye to eye in our relationships all the time. It doesn't mean that the relationship is over if you all want to keep it going

I hope it all works out for you widget. Please take good care of yourself!


sabby