Good for you Missquestions.....I'm so impressed too...you made a right decision with rational thoughts....I wish most of us could have been made up our mind and chosen a right decision like you.....
When there are so many argument in a relationship, that's the time to say good bye....besides, what's the point of being in a relationship when the guy doesn't communicate and doesn't want to understand us.....
don't even hesitate in your decision.....once you meet that special person, you will think back of this day and be happy for your break ups....
However, I kinda not agree with you of getting married and then move in together....there is no difference really....if the person is not a right one, he will be not good in any situation, marriage or boyfriend or whatever.....and the ugly truth is that you can't really know the person till living together....
take care of yourself....
marjan