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Originally Posted by lonegael
KM, it's not just a matter of your daughter disrespecting you, but a matter of how she learns to treat other aroung her, including her own children. We learn things we don't even realizewe learn, and she needs to learn that being a woman means standing up for herself and for her family. She learns this from you. She learns setting boundaries from you. She learns what to expect in life from you. I do not want to sound so harsh, dear, because I really can imagin that it is not so easy to change situations like this one, but something has got to give.
If she is the darling on your avatar, then you are a lucky lady, and she has a good mom to see that this is not an OK situation! I hope you can figure something out. HUGGGGS!
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Yes, that is my daughter in the picture. Thank you, she is my whole world. And I have decided to take your advice and stand up for myself. I am refusing to speak to my mother for the next couple of weeks so that she can see that there are consequences for her actions. I am also not allowing my daughter to be around someone that doesnt respect me or my decisions. I think that this is the best thing that I can do right now.