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Originally Posted by Sannah
I can understand this. It is hard. But don't you think that you move forward anyway when you do this, even if it is just a little bit?
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I think you are likely right although sometimes the overwhelming pain shadows the tiny bit of movement forward most of the time. It is hard to hold onto any good feelings sometimes.
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Originally Posted by Sannah
I remember when I thought that a person should know me before I even spoke enough to let the person get to know me. I'll bet that you just haven't told her enough so that she really understands you?
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I don't understand me so i guess it is a bit of a stretch to expect her to understand me... There are just some key bits I always figure we've covered but i'm still having to reiterate frequently. Do you think it is possible that I'm choosing the wrong words? Or do you think if someone told you something but didn't seem to have much emotion in their words to back it up that you'd take it at face value and not think about it much?
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Originally Posted by Sannah
Abby, I understand that you devalue yourself and your experience but I absolutely do not. Abby, you are important to me, this is why I look out for your posts and always answer them. I see a lot of value in you and I'm looking forward to the day when you can also see the same value that I see.
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Thank you for this. I do very much appreciate your replies and advice. I value them a lot! I have to admit at times it is strange though because I've never really had anyone listen to me before. Sometimes I fear I may be giving you the wrong impression of me and I wouldn't like to hurt you if you ever do 'see' the real me...
