Hi ~ This guy sounds pretty dangerous to me. I'd get rid of him, and quick. I hope you didn't tell him your address!!! Break it off. Find someone CLOSE to you, that you can talk to face-to-face, and not just on the phone. Don't do any more cyber dating. That can be dangerous. It might have filled a need for you at the time, but don't do it anymore. Best of luck and God bless. Hugs, Lee