Awww, I so feel for you. That's horrible!

But you really need to mourn the loss of your wife before you get out there and start dating again. I would imagine that right now you are lonely, and that's the wrong time to be dating. Been there, done that!

It does get better. And it is tough. I'm divorced too, and sometimes the loneliness gets to me, but I have to keep on. I feel for you and your family. That's amazing that she walked away from everything.

Dating is hard, and can sometimes really suck. But when you are ready, you will know. But right now, newly divorced and still in pain is not the time to even look for someone. Focus on yourself and do things you would like to enjoy.

I wish you the best!