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Old Nov 10, 2010, 03:10 PM
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I can't decide if I'm being neurotic or what, but I am having a hard time with this one.
I've only been dating him for a few months, but he dropped the "I am falling in love with you" thing about two weeks ago.

The problem is that he's not around much. He has a rather stressful job that is filing for bankruptcy, a daughter he sees every weekend, and then me with a crazy schedule. We really don't get to see each other much, which is part of the problem.

But I think mainly the problem is me and my problems with trusting someone with my heart. I'm divorced, and have been for over two years now. I was then in a relationship with a someone who was a control freak and that didn't work out. I want to give my heart to this guy, and I've been honest with him about what I want. I just don't know what I'm getting exactly because I don't see him much. And I don't want to scare him away by saying I want to see him more often.

Advice? How can I talk to him without scaring the crap out of him?