@popskid: I only discriminate against mean people and bullies so yes, your voice is welcome and counts. thanks for responding. the more information I have the less likely I am to screw up!

@hatteras duck: thanks. It also helps to know that it is not just me. I try so hard and feel so bad when I screw it up! Other than my son I am the only person on the spectrum around me so it is hard to tell what is going on sometimes.