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Old Nov 10, 2010, 04:50 PM
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First of all everyone that you are talking about are all children. No one should ever be in any of these situations but especially children. A child is not prepared to face such things.
Yes Sannah, you are so right. (as usual) I have to remind myself that child's mind is VERY different from adult's mind.
Thank you.

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These people are just making ill-informed comments. They don't have any info on what they are talking about.
You really think so? they're ill-informed? they just seemed so sure of things... ugh...
they were going on and on about how could anyone be so stupid to stay in the closet all day, like that girl did. and how anyone that dumb deserved to have ill done to them if they don't have the sense to make a situation better for themself. I can only imagine what they must be saying/thinking about Elizabeth Smart and what also they would think of me. It was upsetting to read their comments. Since Im very private and don't socialize-- I dont have much other exposure to see any different and worry they speak for the populace...... then I feel I want to isolate even more so.

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I'm really sorry that this happened to you Fins, no wonder it makes your heart pound. Have you been able to discuss this in therapy?
Thank you I've talked a little about this particular event... not much though...... ugh.... I really don't like going "there"......
I've worked hard my whole life walking right on that edge and fear I'll fall off if I feel/think about that which I've hid in my "pocket", my "shoe", my "hood" and anywhere else I can find a hiding place for such upsets.

thanks for your kindness and support.

fins
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