((((((((((((((Cheesehead!w/ ))))))))

I have been watching you fight this jerk-wad, %#@&#! downgrade you, drag you through court, mess with your kids minds & totally mess with YOUR mind for almost a year now...do I have to pull up old posts somehow.

Face it, in most abusive relationships, the abused individual still finds themselves drawn to the abusive person b/c it's almost like a bad habit; it's almost "a way of life"; one begins to think they deserve the abuse.

NOW, I KNOW you're A LOT tougher than that, Shirley! You got the "bark and bite" to fight back....BUT HE is a part of your past, he knows your weak spots & it sounds like he knows how to press your buttons............Girl, hang tough!
Write down every nasty-*** thing he's ever done starting way back...you may wind up w/ a novel. But then, shelve it a day or two...when you start to feel sucked in again...get out that book and READ!! REMEMBER!!!

You're a fighter, girl....you didn't come up w/ that user name for nothing...FIGHT!I know you can do it..... PM if you need, o.k?

I am proud of your outstanding progress over the past months! You have every right to, also!


Kool in WI DAYZEE9