Dexter I had to lol at your title NOT at your post...Only 2 people on this site knows something major going on with me but all my friends...or so called ones do...and still I get calls or emails on THEM and their issues ..One called me to wish me a happy birthday but she went on and on and on about some issue in HER life....that was the real reason for the call IMO...One emailed me and asked why I don't answer her calls and all.....but she knows I am facing homelessness and the idiot expects me to call her long distance to chat on her company and her trip to Spain and crap...I think they are insensitive, in denial and just selfish...I have pretty much cut out 90% of my support to a lot of people I know who spend way too much time on their issues (and sometimes its saying the same thing 6 times over) ...I have noticed I hear from them far less....selfish idiots. I am also sick of the be happy and have fun crap....yeah like this is fun ...maybe as fun as or MORE SO THAN A TRIP TO SPAIN