timeo,

Gem has got it in one. He is being a manipulator. Its like he couldnt get to you so he worked his way round your cirlce of people.

It sorta seems like he feels if he does this then he can absolve himself of any responsibility in what happened between you both.

Your friends and family hopefully explained to him that you too would have your issues and feeling and they are just as important.

I was on the receiving end of something similar where an ex of someone I am very close to told me how had he had been treated. It made me feel uncomfortable as I knew where my loyalties lay and it wasnt with him. In the end i told him not to have these type of conversations with me as they felt manipulative in nature.

He stopped

atg