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Old Nov 11, 2010, 04:56 PM
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I feel I'm being gender discriminated here.....all guys went to lunch together...What the heck? that's not good to exclude few women who are working here
I might not even go out with them, but I feel so hurt of their actions....I'm working in a man dominated work place....there are three times more men in engineering jobs than women....but that doesn't make us to be excluded from any events....
What is the difference between me and the other guy who got hired few months after me? he can go have lunch with my manager and I can't????
We are just three women in the entire Engineering group!
Am I getting jealous and paranoid?
I hate being this much scared of telling anything....because even if I write my opinion in the employee survey then they will figure out easily by just having three female in the survey, that's an easy job to figure out who complained?
It's been few weeks that I wanted to have lunch with my manager, because I wanted to discuss my future in the company and the tasks that he assigns me....It's hard for me to ask him, because he's a single guy and I don't want anybody thinks anything, although he's not my type at all....
Not sure how to drag him away and ask him for private conversation without everybody hearing it....I really need to talk to him about the tasks that he assigns me....I'm bored to dead these days by writing just documents....I don't gain any experience like this and I'm totally pissed....He gives all the coding job to another girl....
Not sure how to discuss this with him....