Thank you all for the support Really! Lou thanks for the real estate info. I believe we are in joint tenancy and not tenants in common. I was on title first. He came on later and if i recall that iaswhat we set up. I will defintely look into your suggestions. And KimmyDawn, I think you hit som of the issues on the head. I do believe he thinks I do not see him or know him. And that he is so tired of my insensitvity. For me, I am able to hear him, but the pain of sitting with it, is so hard.

Because I am a therapist guilt and shame come up. Like , how could I have let this go so far. However, I pair that thought with, It is not all me. He is really traumatized over something that I have very little control in helping him "fix".

Again. You folks are sweet. I intend to hang around awhile and get to know you. Thanks! <font color="#008800"> </font>