((((((((((((((anjelmarie))))))))))))) I think it's important to get this stuff out and I for one am more than happy to listen. I'm sure others are too. That's what this site is for!!!! (((((((((((((((anjelmarie))))))))))))) I do think your therapist is on to something when she encourages you to move out. But I totally understand that that would be a big, scary change. I also have a hard time with change. I think a lot of people do. It's one reason many people stay in bad situations. But I'm thinking perhaps this really is something worth exploring. Perhaps it would be possible for you to rent something like an in-law unit in someone's house. That way you could have your own private space, but it would be cheaper than renting an entire apartment on your own. I'm not sure where you live and what sort of options are available, but I hope there are some options you can explore. Another thought is that perhaps you could house-sit for someone. I have seen ads on Craigslist for house-sitters. People who are away for a long time and need someone to live in their home and take care of basic things (bringing in the mail, watering plants etc etc).

In the meantime, I'm really glad your niece will at least be at school for part of the day from next Monday.

Wishing you as much peace as possible ((((((((((((((anjelmarie))))))))))))))