(((((((((((((time0)))))))))))) I am so sorry that he is doing this to you. It sounds like he is abusing you in a mental way. Do you think your friends and family would listen if you asked them to tell your side of the situation? The only thing negatively they could say is no; so you might want to be prepared should they do so. Do I understand correctly that you are back in this relationship? That must make it all the harder. I hope things improve soon. Please take care of yourself. Remember you deserve it.