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Originally Posted by QUEEN OF WANDS
we have reported the incidents but each time the police go to his house he is there..we were advised to record everything..I AM NOT WAITING FOR ANYTHING! I AM DOING EVERYTHING RIGHT!and i do not appreciate the sarcasm..this is hard enough.i went to my appointment with some help and am starting meds...my fear was overwhelming yesterday but feeling much more positive today...i am a survivor and will gain strength to see this through with my head held high...thank you for your caring and support...struggling 2010 i am sorry for what u have experienced as well..i do not have the time to go respond to your first post..but i can see we have similarities..altho u seem to come across harsh or angry..i cannot handle negativity right now..too busy caring for my children and making a better life for them....thank you again all
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I'm sorry if you took offense to my post.
Please don't take offense ... i have a ... humh, nice way to put it as someone said
... matteroffact ... approach and it can come off wrong.
but what i was saying it what others are concerned about as well. who needs that guy ... lurking around EVEN with a PO and etc ..., especially from what we went through. What we've read, you or the next victim can end-up dead and MUST AVOID for sure.
sorry that you are going through such ... harassment though. this part is something i don't get either. BUT from reading so much of late, PDs can be an extremist as well as nonsensical in their actions.
Just when the actions are life threatening ... NO TOLERANCE should be the rule. I did struggle, feeling empathy for my ex. But really, i've come to a resolve and got the closure I needed. Forums did help in some aspects of hedging forward and past what happened. Though, you'll find / later realize you knew everything they're telling you anyway ... in the back of your mind / somewhere in your mind.
Yours though didn't stop. And though at this point it's not about grieving over what happened and the loss of a relationship of love but more of the focus these days are about FEAR AND SURVIVAL.
I hope his charade STOPS ASAP for everyone's sake involved! Sorry law enforcement can protect you anymore too.
Take good care and be safe. I cannot even begin to imagine what it must be like to be terrorized in the manner you've been going through since you've left and can't really "LEAVE" him.