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Originally Posted by bloom3
i'm really glad your dad knows about this. 
if you have her first and last name then you can do a people search and hopefully find out her home phone number. i really think her parents would want to know what she's up to but your dad would be the one to talk to them. i know it would be awkward but you need her out of your life and she sounds like she needs help because she's really out of control with how she's been after you.
another option is if you have your dad talk to someone who is knowledgeable about internet security they might be able to block her from your computer. i wouldn't have your friend talk to her. it would be better to cut off any communication to her altogether so she'll eventually move on. more communication, even thru someone else, will just encourage her to continue. she sounds sick and needs help. there is no sense to her behavior so trying to make it make sense probably won't work. |
I've given up on that whole idea of getting my friend to talk to her. I reminded myself that in the moment I didn't want it, and in that moment I was truely thinking of what I really wanted, I had the honest feelings come back (the anger and anxiety) when she added me. I was only thinking about it now when I had calmed down, but letting someone figure it out for me would just make me feel those things again which isn't what I really want.
The thing is that I've tried to cut off all communication all together a lot. I hadn't spoken to her since August until recently when I found out about her and Jesse in October. Before August I think the last time I spoke to her was around April or May when she went with Jesse the first time. Before that I kept contact with her from, probably september or october until then. Beofre that, it was May. So there are big gaps between contact and she always manages to get back to me some how.. Though half of that is my fault for letting her.
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