Mom always put me in the middle: there were things I was not suppose to tell my grandma, or maybe her current lover, or whoever else. My grandma was the same way: I will give you this but don't let your Mom know or...Now hubby and eldest son are being the same way: Don't tell dad where I went...Don't let son know but I read this note from a girl in his room... Noone hears when I say don't put me in that position. Do they really not care about me? I am crumbling beneath the stress.