You know there is more than a little girl inside you all. I know, I know, that's what it feels like right now. But did you know you have a Parent self there as well? And......an Adult self? The problems arise when the Adult part is taking a backseat to the Child and Parent, allowing those parts to conduct the business of the day. Take a look at the link in my siggy to learn more of this problem. It's on the Psych Central website too.