Yes I thought your T's response your wrote about in your other post ie when you told how you feel about her going away and she replied "Thats sweet" was a bit well naff. Thats what an office collegue or a neighbour would say but come on, our Ts? Its not sweet its painful and you want that acknowledged very much! Thats why when I wrote about my emailing T about her break and said I need it explained to me, I don't understand and she acknowledge she knew how the feelings I was feeling and that even though she knew that she still had to go, that validated me and her having to go became "contained" for me, but if she'd just said, oh thats sweet, well wheres the therapy in that?