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Old Nov 13, 2010, 08:22 PM
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Ryask Ryask is offline
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Originally Posted by midnight_soul View Post
I sent you a P.M. U took all that I said and twisted it around making me look like a fool, thanks
I didn't make you look like a fool, i tried to caution you about what you were saying, as a matter of fact i told you that if you wanted to do it you would have to let them know about limitations of confidentiality beforehand. I think if you do some breathing and relax a bit before coming back to the post you will pick up on some key words from my post:

" i know you feel sympathy or maybe even empathy but are you sure that you are well enough in your own life to take this burden on without being able to debrief from it because of your promise not to tell anyone?"

"Your best bet is to say that your there to listen but there are some limitations to your confidentiality"

Do those statements really seem like they are meant to make you feel stupid, or feel like i am being hateful or cruel. Or do they maybe feel like me caring about your well being and wanting to help you do what you want to by offering suggestions about how you can protect both yourself and the people coming to you by letting them know about limitations of confidentiality.
This indicates that i think you should do more research before you start. I do apologize that you felt i was being hateful but i can assure you that was not my intent. If i wanted to be hateful i would not have expressed any concern about you at all or maybe i would have said something rude without offering you anything to think about before you started.

Anyways i think you should stay on the site and if you feel my comments are not helpful i will no longer post anything to you, it's really no skin off my back. I am sure we can share the site.

Best of luck,

Tina

Last edited by Ryask; Nov 13, 2010 at 09:16 PM.
Thanks for this!
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