I've had an abusive relationship before him...and I was blind to the abuse and allowed it to continue until i left the relaitonship...I look back on it and can't beleive I allowed someoen to treat me the way they did, there was emotional and physicla as well as sexual abuse.

I also had emotionally abusive parents and family emembers. The only close person I trust is my current bf...but little things get to me.

he told me he has trouble with punctuality...we tlaked about it and he said from now on...if he says he will be at my hosue at a certain time...he will be there...and if he says he'll stay till a certain time he will.

I'm better at managing my time and he admits that...I'm just afraid of being abused again, and there is always that worry in the back of my mind

I also get abused at work by coworkers...who tell me I'm a loser and treat me like crap...my bf defends me all the time and comforts me when these people hurt my feelings...he tlels me not to lsiten to them