Midnightsoul,how are you coming along? Have read just this thread,none of the others yet love.Believe that you felt harmed by Ryasks post.Honestly don't see any malicious intent.Feel that thoughtful insights were leveled.Know this issue is very close to your heart.Seems you feel a deep passion about it & in a sandstorm of painful emotion.Do take some time to recover from this feeling .Come back and reread.Response is asking you to think more and see other angles and perspectives.Please feel better.People care.No malevolence in post.You feel passion and empathy.Those are lovely to have.Open your mind objectively to different angles.Reread their post & consider the thoughts there to see it newly.If still you cannot value the thoughts,discard them.At the finish see the gift of having a wider realm of input.The beauty of reaching out:A wide scope! LahLah=loveandhope/Stacia