yes and no and yes and no and yes and no. My T has already said she thinks a hug would be healing for me, but haven't the guts yet to take one, I think its the "well what do we do next" thing that stops me. I also am weary of the the tone of original qoute, its a bit, well if T's won't hug its because they think clients are either A, b, or c, and I think to give the therapist their due, I doubt its for those reasons that they won't hug, once again I don't like the "victim" angle.