We each have our own faults. I also find it very annoying when people do not do what they say they will when they say they will do it. It is important to remember that he is not doing this to annoy or anger you. Perhaps when he makes the plans he has every intention of doing just what he says but he over-estimates how much time he has. Sometimes life just happens.
You say that you feel as if he dictates the time you spend together, but what I hear is that you want to spend as much time together as possible and he is letting you know what time he has free. What more can a person do? If you feel that he is taking you for granted, then make your own plans and if his schedule interfers with yours it is his tough luck.
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I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.
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