Hello Dexter and welcome

Wow is all I could think of when I was reading your post. You don't mention your age but I am amazed at how well you are coping. You should be proud of yourself...reaching out to others takes a lot of courage and you have that.

I am so sorry about the loss of your Mother and how things are being dealt with there . What do you want to do in regards to a memorial service for her? Not what your father wants but you?

Gosh...your situation with your Father is sad. I would think that the social workers should be helping the situation...not adding to your stresses that you already are going through. Can you speak to someone else? Your Father's doctor? How old is he? Do you have any other siblings?

I am going to have a look at your site as well. I hope that you will keep posting here and reaching out. You are going to get through this....there are some wonderful people here who will listen and help as much as we can.

Stay strong.


Heather

"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life - it goes on."
~~Robert Frost