My boyfriend is Jewish and I am Chinese, I am not religious but I do like to celebrate Christmas. Growing up in my household we should do lite decorating and exchange Christmas gifts in my family. Now that i am living with him I asked if it was alright for me to put some decorations up. He told me that I was not allowed to and I don't even pay half of the mortgage. We've been having a lot of relationship problems and I dont want to add on anymore. Is this something worth fighting over? I even suggested that I can put up some Hannaka decor as well but there was no compromise. I fell as he is trying to change me or not let me be myself. I also worry in the feature when we have kids and if we do get married this will be an issue.