(((((((bpd mess))))))))

I meant to respond to your other post, but I think I missed it. Do you HAVE to bring your H? Once, when T was concerned about me, he asked if I would bring in my H or a friend and I said "no". I want that space to be mine. I convinced him I could be safe, and gave him permission to CALL H or a friend if he felt like he had to.

It's your therapy. If it really makes you uncomfortable, could you put it off and talk about it with T a little more?